Unknown Person

My friend's STO Vlog

December 10 2014
My friend, TJ did a rundown of the venerable D'Kyr T-5U Science vessel in one of his latest vlogs, thoughts?

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2nd link in case the first one didn't work:

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Edited December 10 2014 by Unknown Person

Unknown Person

Shadow of Revan is here!

December 10 2014
My Inquisitor is human, he works fine but a dark side Miraluka sounds pretty badass.
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Kiera Skylar

LoonShy

[EVENT] Holiday Countdown Giveaways!

December 10 2014
:blink: I won one?! :huh: :woohoo:


I think that might be a prometheus, yeah.
Sej @Ereiid

Ereiid

"those kind of gays"

December 10 2014
Quote by Tlek
yeah, but it doesn't help us when within our own kind, we get slammed for not being as superhumanly perfect as we can, it's hard to do it all alone, especially when those that you attempt to trust and rely on, tend to abandon you with at best a snide or sarcastic remark, or sometimes simply stop talking to you when it gets tougher.


I think the undergirding point should be that gay, straight, mean girl, whatever - that sort of bullying more often than not originates from a source of insecurity. Now, the difference being that it's not an excuse, or condoning behavior.

Choosing how to channel those experiences to inform your (not yours specifically, the general, royal "yours") adult life is the very point. And for all the bitchy queens, I think everyone here can recognize people in their own lives that have found ways to turn that pain and pressure into empathy, gratitude, a sense of justice, and even live fabulous while doing it.
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Chris Mello

Bonisagus

Shadow of Revan is here!

December 10 2014
And also, I just resubbed...The horrors, I know nothing of my characters any more. I need to start from scratch. Ugh what to make? Oh who am I kidding, a Sith Inquisitor of course. The question Miralukan or Human?
Chris Mello

Bonisagus

Shadow of Revan is here!

December 10 2014
How does one respond to that? Hmmm, ah I know a little George Michael lyrics from the early 90s. "Would you like me to seduce you? Is that what you are trying to tell me?:
Cal

calx

[EVENT] Holiday Countdown Giveaways!

December 10 2014
Prometheus class?
Dave (Voleron)

Voleron

[EVENT] Holiday Countdown Giveaways!

December 10 2014

D A Y · N I N E · G U E S S I N G · O P E N !
December 9th - Door #9 Opened


Post your replies to this thread, guessing which starship is shown behind door #9 on the calendar on the first page of this thread. Remember: only one guess per day! We'll announce the correct answer by the end of the day and an in-game e-mail with your holiday gift will follow!

Day #8 answer: Intrepid Class
Day #8 winner: Tlek - Email with gift attachment sent by in-game mail
Ben

Gravity

Post Delta Rising PvP Survey

December 09 2014
replied
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Kiera Skylar

LoonShy

Star Trek Attack Wing

December 09 2014
Anybody play this?
I have slowly picked up a D'kyr, Vo and Negh'Var, liked the models.
Then, recently I got a great deal on some doubled up starter sets with a pair of customized galaxy class ships and some other Tournament only bits, (2 sets of federation and cardassian fighters, redshirts, Nor Station parts, lots of planets, a nice felt starfield play mat, faction color bases and some plastic movement finder parts)

at the time I write this I have an NX class and Chang's Bird of Prey on the way and just found out about one of the D7s coming with cyrano jones, who generates TRIBBLES! :woohoo:

really looking forward to getting into it more, finding some people that play it, who knows, maybe I'll find some good friends through it., seen the neat TOS gorn ship in person, played against some tholians, and seen some other nice stuff, (nebula class, cloaked ship models, The ship type Seven of nine's family flew...)
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Edited December 09 2014 by LoonShy
Trahelion

Trahelion

"those kind of gays"

December 09 2014
I think it is human nature to want to band together, forming "cliques", and then asserting dominance over other groups. Sort of a primal survival instinct.

I'm in no way defending it, as we're a few good thousand years from needing things like tribes and clans. In fact, I'm rather irked by any "Us vs. Them" kind of thinking.

Anyways, that's my thinking on the subject. I even distribute my disdain across ALL of humanity. :P
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Tsar Agus

WhiteOnmyoji

Post Delta Rising PvP Survey

December 09 2014
9 months ago when I assumed the Chief of Tactical Readiness Department I sent out a survey to gauge your interest and feelings about PvP.

We got a lot of data out of that and we are still using that data to plan upcoming things for you. But Since the Advent of Delta Rising, we've hit a snag. We've mined all the data available to us in the game but we need to know more. So I am asking for your help again with another Survey. Parts of the survey is to get your attitude and feeling about what we've done so far. The other part is to get a sample of where everybody is at so we can plan accordingly.

So please go to



and take the survey so we can get a better idea of what's what and serve you better.

It is completely anonymous so please be honest and we will post the results once we've gotten enough responses.

Thank you for your help

WhiteOnmyoji
Chief of Tactical Readiness
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Cal

calx

Ho Ho Ho - Oh Christmas Tree!

December 09 2014
Quote by GXV3
I do like your baubles aswell, Dave .. very festive


I like Dave's balls a lot too, might feature em in the Times ;)
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Kiera Skylar

LoonShy

[EVENT] Holiday Countdown Giveaways!

December 08 2014
now, that looks like the bridge windows of an intrepid class to me.
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Bren Ohmsford

Bren

"those kind of gays"

December 08 2014
Where it concerns more feminine or less masculine gay men, I think a huge part of the problem is that society is pervasively misogynistic. It's trickled down from the heterosexual patriarchy into the gay community. We've adopted a lot of societal preconceptions and enforced them on ourselves, which only leads to more oppression... this time not by others, but by ourselves.

Fighting for acceptance doesn't stop once we've achieved equal civil rights. There are centuries worth of cultural preconceptions and conditioning that need to be addressed, and the first way to do that is to stand up for yourself by not allowing anyone (especially within the LGBT community) to tell you who you may or may not be. Equality is not just for the elite few who can blend into "mainstream" society, it's for every person.
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Dave (Voleron)

Voleron

[EVENT] Holiday Countdown Giveaways!

December 08 2014

D A Y · E I G H T · G U E S S I N G · O P E N !
December 8th - Door #8 Opened


Post your replies to this thread, guessing which starship is shown behind door #8 on the calendar on the first page of this thread. Remember: only one guess per day! We'll announce the correct answer by the end of the day and an in-game e-mail with your holiday gift will follow!

Day #7 answer: Bellerophon Class
Day #7 winner: KnightChucky - Email with gift attachment sent by in-game mail
Kiera Skylar

LoonShy

"those kind of gays"

December 08 2014
Quote by Ereiid
So, this book had been recommended to me awhile back: The Velvet Rage



Now, full disclosure - the author is a clinical psychologist, but I don't want anyone to confuse his ideas with hard scientific fact. But even anecdote and example can be illuminating.

His basic gist is that gay men are so used to being belittled at an early age, as we grow older, we find ourselves often times overcompensating, seeking approval and validation through certain archetypal paradigms.

Take for example certain avenues in which gay men are often broadly reputed, even among ourselves and friendly allies, to excel at:
  • living fabulously - we're supposed to have fantastic homes, stylish and comfortable
  • living hotly - so this is the gym bunny archetype, but can be extended to the extra effort we put into clothes, beauty, hair, and everything else shallow


Now extrapolate this to everything - workplace, personal lives, our political lives. And the growing realization is that we're expected to somehow live these superhuman exceptional lives.

Which sounds like it's not a bad way to be, kind of an aspirational ideal, right?

So Downs goes on to describe the downside of all this living fabulously. Gay men experience statistically known higher rates of depressive disorders, drug abuse, and so on.

It should be said that the author specifies this cloud of phenomena and behaviors are specific for gay men; other folks in the LGBT umbrella have plenty of their own challenges that just don't map over. And he's not very forthcoming about Deepak Chopra-style means of coping with all these stressors in a healthy manner.

Agree with it, disagree with it - the point is to strike up a conversation about ourselves in a brutally honest fashion.



yeah, but it doesn't help us when within our own kind, we get slammed for not being as superhumanly perfect as we can, it's hard to do it all alone, especially when those that you attempt to trust and rely on, tend to abandon you with at best a snide or sarcastic remark, or sometimes simply stop talking to you when it gets tougher.


I might be a cynic, but I still believe things can be improved if people try, most of the time it seems like other gay people are apathetic ("it is how it is, just go with it.") or nihilistic ("there's no point in coming out, it only serves to alienate you and make you a target. " "Protesting oppression gets you shot" Well we are subhuman scum anyway, so, why does it matter?") beyond me.


it's a wonder to me how those people don't actually turn suicidal.
Edited December 08 2014 by LoonShy
Joseph Baker

Jerran

[EVENT] Holiday Countdown Giveaways!

December 08 2014
Pathfinder
Joseph Baker

Jerran

The Salvation Army

December 08 2014
Quote by Frozenlily
I remember my dealings with the Salvation Army when they came to My work and I was helping them every year with their shopping and their donations and it was always the same three old ladies that came in. They never seemed like they showed any form of negative karma my way. I'm surprised tho to see these links


Just like with a lot of churches, there are good people in them... then there's the leadership.
Sej @Ereiid

Ereiid

"those kind of gays"

December 08 2014
So, this book had been recommended to me awhile back: The Velvet Rage



Now, full disclosure - the author is a clinical psychologist, but I don't want anyone to confuse his ideas with hard scientific fact. But even anecdote and example can be illuminating.

His basic gist is that gay men are so used to being belittled at an early age, as we grow older, we find ourselves often times overcompensating, seeking approval and validation through certain archetypal paradigms.

Take for example certain avenues in which gay men are often broadly reputed, even among ourselves and friendly allies, to excel at:
  • living fabulously - we're supposed to have fantastic homes, stylish and comfortable
  • living hotly - so this is the gym bunny archetype, but can be extended to the extra effort we put into clothes, beauty, hair, and everything else shallow


Now extrapolate this to everything - workplace, personal lives, our political lives. And the growing realization is that we're expected to somehow live these superhuman exceptional lives.

Which sounds like it's not a bad way to be, kind of an aspirational ideal, right?

So Downs goes on to describe the downside of all this living fabulously. Gay men experience statistically known higher rates of depressive disorders, drug abuse, and so on.

It should be said that the author specifies this cloud of phenomena and behaviors are specific for gay men; other folks in the LGBT umbrella have plenty of their own challenges that just don't map over. And he's not very forthcoming about Deepak Chopra-style means of coping with all these stressors in a healthy manner.

Agree with it, disagree with it - the point is to strike up a conversation about ourselves in a brutally honest fashion.
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Edited December 08 2014 by Ereiid